I like guys who know how to be masculine, but also have a somewhat feminine figure -- and are okay with that! I'm not a big fan of really built up bodies; I know that it makes a lot of girls feel protected, but it can also create the opposite effect. I'm not saying that I don't like muscle, because lean muscle is perfect. I love to see it when guys have toned arms, because it lets you know that he's strong enough to defend you, but not so strong that he might squash you when you hug him!
I also have a preference for urban guys. It used to be that country boys were very respectful and gentlemanlike, but they're a dying race. Now it's motorcycles, cowboy boots and dirty language. Plus, a lot of them have no style. It may sound shallow, but it bothers me to be out somewhere nice with [I]anyone[/I] in jeans and a tee shirt. I guess if a nice, respectful Southerner came along, I would be all right with that. But, no such luck just yet.
I have no decided preference on hair/eye/skin color. But I'm usually attracted to members of my own race -- caucasian. Sometimes, you get the occasional Asian guy, but my parents are strongly against interracial relationships.
Oh, and that's a big thing. I like guys who are respectful towards my family and me. Honesty is also an important quality. I would rather be told the honest-to-God truth than my boyfriend pretend that everything was all right until I found out about a problem. That just makes things worse.
Thoughtfulness is a huge key. Just little surprises can let both people in a relationship know that their boyfriend/girlfriend cares. Quick humor and wit is also a favorite among guys, but not comepletely necessary. Guys who can tolerate both my nerdiness and my love for clothes and sports -- plus my silly little quirks -- are a huge turn-on. A girl needs a guy who loves her for who she is. And I love guys who share my stupid habits, or have funny quirkls of their own.
The main thing is, I don't like dating clones. I like guys who have their own personality and style.