I do like the whole side love story. Yes, after a while, it can seem redundant, but I think that the characters would be weird if theres a guy and he goes across the world, saves a girl several times, and gets saved in turn a few times and doesnt end up at least questioning his feelings toward her. Granted, I dont think they always need to end up together, but questioning it just makes them seem less two dimensional.
One more thing is that I have to commend you all on such widely spoken view points brought together here, and still we act mature and dont get offended by ones opinionand go into rants. which tends to happen in other message board like sites. Thank you all.