Hi,
Firstly, bein a guy n everythin, looks do have some effect, but they are defiantely not everything, unfortunately its human nature. Anyway...
About 3 years ago (14 yrs old), i had been out with about 6-7 lass's. All of which I asked out. However, durina summber break i decided to totaly change myself, i worked out, started doing the stuff i love, and became myself. Once i did this, i kind of free'd myself....from my old self, and it was such a liberating experience, now i dont even hesitate to ask people for numbers, and the confidence and self belief that people somewhere will like u, really rubs off on those around you, and you get accepted as a totaly new person...as yourself.
Perhaps you should just try and be yourself, like a guy? get his number and chat to him, if your old enough just say "Why dont you take me for a drink" ... :)
If you like someone, watching from afar wont do anything, get to know the best part of a person....who they are.
Ta,
J.L