Well it seems that there is this problem all over the world!!!
i live in the uk and I have looked at a couple of sites that support anime clubs around the country which are run mainly by university but i have a problem with transport :(
there is a club at a city about hour and half away (Nottingham) and being just turned 17 meaning that i am just learning to drive, but once that is over come i will be able to meet people who like anime like me and not live in complete isolation, even though my friend know i like anime they don't really care.
but i have decided once i am driving and after i finish my A-levels i am going to go to a anime con some where which would be nice :D