Weeeeeeeeeeeeeell, as long as the "N" word isn't meant in a bad way toward me then I'm perfectly fine wit it. Me and my friend would play around where he would call me "****** Girl" and I would call him "Cracker Jack". All in good fun I assure you. But it kinda depends on who you know too. Like MysticGohon said, "say SOME racial terms to your good friends, but only when you're playing around...". And as Far as J-Lo saying it, I really didn't see what the prolem was. A lot of Latino people say that to each other too.