Charles Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 [QUOTE=vegeta rocker]way i see it you have nothing to be jealous of. I am jealous of my ex's new chick but thats because he is with her. You on the other hand have him already, don't be jealous, be proud that he has chosen you. making you jealous is why she is doing all of this anyway. If you show her your envious side she will think she in winning. Besides if you keep getting jealous he might get tired of you as well and just avoid the both of you to avoid the drama. thats me dos pesos[/QUOTE] Haha you should read Nekosama's previous thread about this guy; she probably shouldn't be proud and chances are (and don't mistake my frankness for rudeness here) that he's tapping that other chick on the side like a keg in an Irish pub on St. Patrick's Day.
Corey Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 [quote name='Charles']he's tapping that other chick on the side like a keg in an Irish pub on St. Patrick's Day.[/quote] [size=1]Simply amazing. And kudos on the proper holiday implementation.[/size]
NekoSama101 Posted March 12, 2006 Author Posted March 12, 2006 but with her thinking that he likes her makes me want to prove her wrong and show her that he likes me instead by going out with him
Charles Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 [quote name='NekoSama101']but with her thinking that he likes her makes me want to prove her wrong and show her that he likes me instead by going out with him[/quote] Such zen-like wisdom. Perhaps you should make a thread where you offer advice for those seeking help with their relationship problems. I'm sure your outside-the-box thinking and insightful nature will make it a great success.
Starwind Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 The way I see it, this looks like a sticky situtation that probably needs some outside counciling right here. This ex-girlfriend sounds like she has got some pretty serious dependency issues and might go full crazy stalker and stab you if you did anything to drastic. The two of you need to get together on this one and get a restraining order against this nut job. Second, I'll go with charles in saying this guy sounds a little off as well. He's either thicker then the lead in a japanese anime or he's be getting some insentive on the side. Try addressing him on his recent and past relations with this chick and see how fast he tries to divert the topic. If he tries to jump straight to sport center after a two or three sentence long reply, it might be time to reconsider your options.
Sara Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 [QUOTE=NekoSama101]she's such a preppy wannabe ******!! :mad: i forgot to say that i like to make her mad by sitting on his lap and hanging out with him eventhough she doesn't want me to. [/QUOTE][color=#b0000b][size=1]Regular [i]beacon[/i] of maturity, you are. And, ah... why do you want to go out with this guy, again? [quote name='NekoSama101 (in aforementioned thread)']There's just one problem, he lies to me all the time, he's a pothead, and every girlfriend he's had so far he's cheated on.[/quote] Get over him.[/size][/color]
Charles Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 [quote name='Starwind']The way I see it, this looks like a sticky situtation that probably needs some outside counciling right here. This ex-girlfriend sounds like she has got some pretty serious dependency issues and might go full crazy stalker and stab you if you did anything to drastic. The two of you need to get together on this one and get a restraining order against this nut job.[/quote] You're thinking too far into this. lol They're teenage girls and this is their drama. That's all there is to it.
Japan Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 [QUOTE=Charles]You're thinking too far into this. lol They're teenage girls and this is their drama. That's all there is to it.[/QUOTE] [COLOR=DarkRed]Hear, hear Just get out of the situation cause no matter what, they will still cause you useless grief. Stay single![/COLOR]
NekoSama101 Posted March 13, 2006 Author Posted March 13, 2006 i'm mature in other ways. I just don't know how to handle guys.
Sara Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 [quote name='NekoSama101']i'm mature in other ways. I just don't know how to handle guys.[/quote][size=1][color=#b0000b]Or girls, apparently. If you want a permanent, steady, exclusive relationship, you are going to need to find another guy to have it with. His track record, frankly, sucks, and he's not going to change for you. If you're not going to move on, then you need to cope with all of this guys' issues. It would seem that those issues includes stalk-ex-chick-person.[/color][/size]
NekoSama101 Posted March 13, 2006 Author Posted March 13, 2006 i don't know how to handle crazy bitches. for the most part i get girls.....and guys for that matter. just not in this case, obviously.
Starwind Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 Guys aren't to complicated, there just usually really stupid and purely driven by hormones. I promise he's probably just as confused over this whole thing as you are.
Charles Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 [quote name='Starwind']Guys aren't to complicated, there just usually really stupid and purely driven by hormones. I promise he's probably just as confused over this whole thing as you are.[/quote] Yeah, again, read her previous thread about him. It helps to actually know what you're talking about.
NekoSama101 Posted March 14, 2006 Author Posted March 14, 2006 i'm pretty sure he's confused too because he's been "planning" to ask me out for over 4 months now. i think he's too shy to.... by the way, this is how mad this preppy chick makes me. she makes me want to do this to her: :modrod: and this :bash: and this :blowup: and this :flush:
the Samaruimist Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 well not to make you mad but does he really like you maybe he may still have feeling her and you need to prove it. if you see her show her you like this guy and he likes you.but if that dosen't work and she trys something stay cool to prove you can keep your cool. also if he can have that happen maybe you need to move on( tell him the plan). :D
Charles Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 Have you ever thought about just hooking up with this other chick instead?
Ikillion Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 [COLOR=DarkSlateGray][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]^ Lol Have you ever tried to stop and think though that maybe the reason that he likes you is he wants to get into your pants? You would be suprised at how many guys are like that, and its also a little bit like Starwind said. He is only powered by hormones and just may want to do only that. Perhaps that is why he has cheated with everyone he has ever gone out with? Or maybe in another light he is actually trying to get away from you instead. Have you ever though that the only reason that he even seems like he likes you, is because he doesn't want to let you go into a depressed state or something like that. Perhaps you are the reason that all of these problems are happening and you should be the one who needs to deal with the problem yourself instead of asking people who know nothing about the people in question. The smilies must really show how mature you are though..[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]
Charles Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 [QUOTE=Ikillion][COLOR=DarkSlateGray][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS/] The smilies must really show how mature you are though..[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR][/QUOTE] Yes, previously her posts left much room for doubt. But now we know! Oh ho!
NekoSama101 Posted March 14, 2006 Author Posted March 14, 2006 i feel the love. but he's never actually tried to get into my pants. and he's liked me for a long time. i think if he really wanted to, he would have at least tried Plus, one of my friends asked him if that's what he was trying to do and he got really mad and still is for that matter.
Ikillion Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 [COLOR=DarkSlateGray][SIZE=1][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Well just wondering. If you know all of this already and we happen to be wrong with all of our suggestions , then why is there still a problem? If we are so wrong about every piece of advise we give you then you must know how to solve your problem. Leaving a thread such as this one just a waste of space yes? Besides in a couple of years or so you won't even care about such things anymore. It is just mearly another example of teenage drama thats all. Because unless you plan to come to the OB for every one of your personal issues its just a way of saying that you are not yet ready to handle the harshness of life.[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]
NekoSama101 Posted March 15, 2006 Author Posted March 15, 2006 you guys are right with everything. i need to come to someone who doesn't know me or him for that exact reason. It gives you a better perception of the situation.
Guest Metal Dragon Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 There's no reason why you should be jealous of her if the guy likes u as well. If he likes u back then he's yours and there's nothing she can do about it, right? Besides, it's obvious that he doesn't want to be with her and she's just messing with u 'cuz she knows that there's no way that she can get him back.It's sorta sad at the things she has to do to make herself feel better.Not sure how I can make u less jealous so I hope that this helped. :catgirl:
NekoSama101 Posted March 15, 2006 Author Posted March 15, 2006 that actually did....thank you peoples for helping me and offering advice! ------------------------------------------------------------------------- [B]HELP! i just made a really really big mistake[/B] the guy i like (see i need serious help and yet another guy problem) and who likes me asked me out but i wasn't really paying attension and now he thinks we're going out and that preppy ***** is mad at me. the only good thing about this is that i get to rub it in her face. I don't want to go out with anyone right now, but he's so happy! >< i don't know what to do! :animecry: [COLOR=DarkOliveGreen]~Merged double post that resulted from merging threads. ~SunfallE[/COLOR]
Guest Gun Preacher Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Not to be rude but sooner or later you'll have to laugh just do it now to clear your head. Now to the seriuos part tell him tath something bad has happened and let him know that you just need to get through it by yourself what ever you do dont say its not you its me but let him know you still like him you just have stuff to take care of. or just relax and ride it out.
NekoSama101 Posted March 16, 2006 Author Posted March 16, 2006 HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA *falls to the falls laughing and gets up* there, i laughed. ....i am such a freakin'g ditz! *starts slamming her head against a random wall* i plan to dump him in a few days though. just so that he ca be happy for now.
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