BlueTrunks Posted January 18, 2002 Share Posted January 18, 2002 I was woundering if someone could tell me the best way to make a relationship last a bit longer and if I should runnaway to go see her??? BLUEFLAME Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted January 18, 2002 Share Posted January 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BlueTrunks [/i] [B]I was woundering if someone could tell me the best way to make a relationship last a bit longer and if I should runnaway to go see her??? BLUEFLAME [/B][/QUOTE] uh,I need 2 know more boy,but I wouldn't run away 2 see her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted January 18, 2002 Author Share Posted January 18, 2002 Ok what would you like to know??? I'll try and tell you everything I can tell you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted January 18, 2002 Share Posted January 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BlueTrunks [/i] [B]Ok what would you like to know??? I'll try and tell you everything I can tell you. [/B][/QUOTE] just gimme the details,how long u been w/ her?It seems like she lives far away,cause u want to runaway,explain that,why can't u get to her w/o runnin away,how old r u? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted January 18, 2002 Share Posted January 18, 2002 There are many simple things that makes relationships last longer...loyalty, trust, respect, things you have in common....and the list goes on...... There has to be chemistry there, too. Does this girl feel the same way you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted January 19, 2002 Share Posted January 19, 2002 I dont know if people have been PM'ing you but I dont think you can make a fair comment on the few details you provided. If you tell us the details, then I'm more than happy to give you my opinion and advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avalon Posted January 19, 2002 Share Posted January 19, 2002 just a lil more info and i'll know what 2 tell u. oh don't run away 2 see her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted January 19, 2002 Share Posted January 19, 2002 Okay...either this topic has gone kinda dead...or our little friend here doesn't wuv me :bawl: heh, oh well...I'm gona hang round again for the next fews days so I'm willing to try and help anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted January 20, 2002 Author Share Posted January 20, 2002 I do belive she still loves me in the way she always has. But she thinks that one of us has lost there love for one another and that person isn't me. yes she does live far away from me and no one will help me go and see my girlfriend. But sence some of you think I shouldn't runaway then I'll think about it. And if you hear about me in the next couple of days then you know I haven't run yet. So if you need more info ask for what you want to know. Blueflame Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by BlueTrunks [/i] [B]I do belive she still loves me in the way she always has. But she thinks that one of us has lost there love for one another and that person isn't me. yes she does live far away from me and no one will help me go and see my girlfriend. But sence some of you think I shouldn't runaway then I'll think about it. And if you hear about me in the next couple of days then you know I haven't run yet. So if you need more info ask for what you want to know. Blueflame [/B][/QUOTE] heh,look,don't run away!bad idea!if she said one of u lost love 4 the other,it prolly means she don't like u anymore:(and it's not gonna work out if ur so far apart,why don't u just move on?Yes,Lauren,me,the girl that never ever ever wants to get over logan,is tellin u to give up,doesn't seem worth the trouble Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 ya, whatever you do DON'T RUN AWAY! that is the most stupidest thing in the world. there are other girls out there..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by stardust [/i] [B] heh,look,don't run away!bad idea!if she said one of u lost love 4 the other,it prolly means she don't like u anymore:(and it's not gonna work out if ur so far apart,why don't u just move on?Yes,Lauren,me,the girl that never ever ever wants to get over logan,is tellin u to give up,doesn't seem worth the trouble [/B][/QUOTE] Maybe you should follow your own advice, eh Lauren????;) ;) Oh yeah...Don't run away...bad, bad idea...I doubt she is still interested, judging by what she said to you....you don't want to go to all that trouble of going to see her, only to find out that she has moved on to another and she is no longer interested...It's only going to hurt more. LET IT GO:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Delian [/i] [B] Maybe you should follow your own advice, eh Lauren????;) ;) [/B][/QUOTE] eh......?I don't wanna!no!well,actually,I've been tryin to get over him,but it's like [COLOR=crimson]I CAN'T![/COLOR] yeah...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 Okay I just PM'd you before I looked back in this topic again so I will add my advice based on the facts I see here, and you can PM me back if you have anything to add. She says one of you has lost their love, and I agree that this does sound like she's hinting that maybe you don't spark her off as much as you used to. Think back though..have you been busy lately or anything like that where you would have to keep brushing her off? Because if she's feeling down lately or if she's the sensative type then she might not understand why you can't give her much attention and think you've gone off her. I think the best thing you can do..daunting though it may seem, is ask her next time you talk or e-mail or whatever, if she was trying to tell you that she wanted it all over or if she could talk to you so you knew what was up and could sort it all out. Don't forget to tell her somewhere in there that you still love her more than anything else..might sound abit cheesy, but she really needs to know, even if you do *gulp* break up. As for running away to see her. I'd say make it more of a visit than a runner, and only do it if you know that she isn't going to take one look at you and slam the door in your face. I'd say ask her the previous question, and if she says that she's willing to try and work it out, then arrange so you can sleep over one night or something and go and see her. Then you'll get the best part of 2 days to try and make it all good again, and you wont worry anyone by just suddenly going missing. I hope this helps, because I know how much that sort of comment can kill someone :( :bawl: Let me know how it goes..please? I'll be here for you. ** Velvet Paws ** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Dragon v2 Posted January 20, 2002 Share Posted January 20, 2002 My relationship was reached over two years already, so I guess the best thing to say is let it all flow in one direction, but remember the fact to have courage man. Courage and determination counts. But don't let it go to your head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted January 21, 2002 Author Share Posted January 21, 2002 Yeah thank you all for your support and I'll keep you all in touch and I'll tell you what happeneds and yes I did ask her if she wanted to break up and she said she doesn't want to but she feels there is something wrong and all but hey I guess I can wait tell thursday to talk to her about what we're going to do about this and I'll tell you all what happeneds. K love ya all Blueflame Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted January 21, 2002 Author Share Posted January 21, 2002 We're staying together forever she has changed her mind and now I wont have to do anything drastic. I love you all that tried to help. Love Blueflame Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velvet paws Posted January 21, 2002 Share Posted January 21, 2002 I'm just pleased that you're okay hun. PM me whenever you want. I'll be here for you if you ever need me again and fingers crossed for you two :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stardust Posted January 21, 2002 Share Posted January 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by velvet paws [/i] [B]I'm just pleased that you're okay hun. PM me whenever you want. I'll be here for you if you ever need me again and fingers crossed for you two :) [/B][/QUOTE] that goes for me too,if only I could b that lucky w/ guys,no1 likes me:bawl: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted January 22, 2002 Share Posted January 22, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by stardust [/i] [B] that goes for me too,if only I could b that lucky w/ guys,no1 likes me:bawl: [/B][/QUOTE] How can you say that????:smirk: I'm sure you have plenty admirers out there...And you most likely have heaps of them here aswell;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biida Posted January 22, 2002 Share Posted January 22, 2002 Oh, cool! You're the dude Ashley told me about! Hi. I'm Britty. :) *cough* Uhh... Gettin' off subject here... sorry... -.-' Movin' right along, now... *cough* Here's my advice... I think that if one of you doesn't seem to still love the other, you should probably just let it go... move on. There are other fish in the sea, more pebbles on the beach, more crayons in the crayon box... uhh.. you get the idea. But if you really do love her, and you really really want to try again, you should get her into talking about the relationship, and see how things go. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted January 22, 2002 Author Share Posted January 22, 2002 Yeah thanx you all and Stardust if I didn't have a gf I but you I would pick you because you were there for me. And Gold_Angewomon You know Ash from Canada right that's the Ash your talking about??? Or is there another one out there that I can't think of at all?? Well anyways My gf and I are going to stay together forever and ever no turning back now sence I have all ready Proposed to her on November 3rd 2001 at 11:59 pm so very close to the next day. So that's why I was so bumed out and to all of you that posted and gave your advice to help a trobled little kid not do the wrong thing Thanx to all of you and I love ya all and to the girls out there that gave there advice and helped me I give you a :smooch: and for the guys I give a :D . Thank you all for helping me well I'm off for home now so don't forget about me at all. Blueflame [B][I][U]AKASAM[/U][/I][/B][COLOR=blue][FONT=courier new] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delian Posted January 22, 2002 Share Posted January 22, 2002 Good Luck with everything Blue Trunks....I'm sure you guys will be very happy together. Lots-A-Luv:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueTrunks Posted January 23, 2002 Author Share Posted January 23, 2002 Thanx Delian for all your help and I'll keep in touch with all of you that helped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rin Synoske Posted January 20, 2005 Share Posted January 20, 2005 I recommend commin up with sum new topics to discuss, but then again wat do i know. :tasty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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