Gilly Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 ok my friend is leaving and i know she dosen't want to go she is leaving because she want to get away from her parents because they are always trapping her in her room and she has no freedom she can only talk on the phone for 5 mins a day!!! also she is leaving this week i want to stop her but i don't want her to think that i don't support her whut should i do i'm so confused right now:bawl: :( :bawl: :( :( any adive????
(<AA>) Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Gilly [/i] [B]ok my friend is leaving and i know she dosen't want to go she is leaving because she want to get away from her parents because they are always trapping her in her room and she has no freedom she can only talk on the phone for 5 mins a day!!! also she is leaving this week i want to stop her but i don't want her to think that i don't support her whut should i do i'm so confused right now:bawl: :( :bawl: :( :( any adive???? [/B][/QUOTE] Thats horrible!God...It makes you think how nice your parents are compared to them and how small your probs are!God,I know what you mean about bein confused...I seriously don't know what to say!:( I feel so bad.Sorry I was no help at all:(.But does she know where she'll go after she runs away?
Guest Voodookanaka Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 when my friend decided to move to london, i firstly said she could stay with me, told her id miss her, and if she loved me shed stay. she stayed, her home lifes a lot better now after she gave her dad a good yelling at backed up by myself.:)
Angelus_Necare Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 sounds like your friend is doing something healthy, if she needs to leave for her own mental health (and safety) you should understand, don't tell her to stay, support her for her sake and yours.
Dragonballzman Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Angelus_Necare [/i] [B]sounds like your friend is doing something healthy, if she needs to leave for her own mental health (and safety) you should understand, don't tell her to stay, support her for her sake and yours. [/B][/QUOTE] I second that. I think she should leave too. [SIZE=1]P.S. God said "And stop grovling!" Everyone else: Sorry! "And don't say sorry either!! Whenever I try to talk to someone its either sorry this, or forgive me that, and those damn psalms (SP!?!?!? I think it was summit like that! They uh...Damn! I forgot what they do too!) they're so depressing!!"[/SIZE]
Guest Voodookanaka Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 too much python :rolleyes: how olds your mate?
RicoTranzrig Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 A prisoner in her own home? Maybe she did something bad in the past, or her parents are really strict...I'd say that's normal for say...a pre-teen...it isn't wise to break away from your parents at such an early age if that's true.
Spikey Posted February 17, 2002 Posted February 17, 2002 Hey now is she doing something bad to make her parents do this, be cause I don't think a parent will just lock a kid in his/her room. Okay what you should do ask her some questions about what she does to make her parents be doing this, and I guees you should just tell her to stop being bad, really.:babble:
Ryan Posted February 18, 2002 Posted February 18, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by RicoTranzrig [/i] [B]A prisoner in her own home? Maybe she did something bad in the past, or her parents are really strict...I'd say that's normal for say...a pre-teen...it isn't wise to break away from your parents at such an early age if that's true. [/B][/QUOTE] [size=1][color=crimson] I agree. I think we should know more about this girl before she runs away and we choose if she should leave or not. Did she do something bad?(Drugs, Sex etc..)[/size][/color]
velvet paws Posted February 18, 2002 Posted February 18, 2002 Maybe you could offer your friend the option to stay at your house for a few days inbetween leaving and during that time they can decide if they really want to follow through with it....? :toothy: :whoops:
Heaven's Cloud Posted February 18, 2002 Posted February 18, 2002 [color=indigo] I don't understand the whole situation but it sounds like your freind is just going through a little teen angst. She gets locked in her room and her phone time is limited? Maybe she just gets in trouble a lot but doesn't tell you about that part of her life. Tell her to stick it out and maybe seek some family counseling, running away is rarley the best awnser.[/color]
Fall Posted February 18, 2002 Posted February 18, 2002 Well if she did do something wrong, I don't think they should be that harsh... I mean, not talking on the phone for longer than 5 minutes is bad enough.... but trapping her in her room... that's too much in my opinion.... I say let her leave if she wants to, but if she can stay with you, ask her.... :)
Gilly Posted February 18, 2002 Author Posted February 18, 2002 actually i have a bit of a confession...... the girl itz me......i don't know whut to do i wanted to see whut u guys thought..... i don't do drugs i've smoked weed once but thats it.... i'm a virgin and i don't smoke unless i'm totally stressed and thats now but my parents don't know i smoke :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl: :bawl:
Heaven's Cloud Posted February 18, 2002 Posted February 18, 2002 [color=indigo] Well scream at your parents, yell at them, explain what isbothering you rationally... exhaust all of these things before yu do anything rash. And if you do decide that you need to get out of your house, make sure that you have a realistic plan on what to do next.[/color]
velvet paws Posted February 18, 2002 Posted February 18, 2002 well take my advice hun but reverse it...see if you can stay at a friends for a while so u get some space and can chill and debate what you want to do next...
JCBaggee Posted February 20, 2002 Posted February 20, 2002 [color=red][size=4]Get her to register here and let us talk to her directly. I'm very good with counseling and I can probably help, but I have to talk to her directly.[/color][/size]
Gilly Posted February 20, 2002 Author Posted February 20, 2002 erm i told u its me who is leaving i've alraedy left in hangin at the libary right now ....... cops are everywhere....... i'm so dead!:bawl: :cross: :nervous:
JCBaggee Posted February 21, 2002 Posted February 21, 2002 [color=red][size=4]What?! Cops?! Bad news man. I don't know how that scenario will end, but if you want to talk, PM me...I'll listen to whatever you have to say. Whatever happens, someone will always care... --JCBaggee[/color][/size]
Ryan Posted February 21, 2002 Posted February 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Gilly [/i] [B]erm i told u its me who is leaving i've alraedy left in hangin at the libary right now ....... cops are everywhere....... i'm so dead!:bawl: :cross: :nervous: [/B][/QUOTE] [size=1][color=crimson] Tell me this: How long have you been away?[/size][/color]
Gilly Posted February 21, 2002 Author Posted February 21, 2002 i've been gone 2 days now.... i'm livin with this guy i know he is okay but i have to pay the rent at the end of the month.....
JCBaggee Posted February 21, 2002 Posted February 21, 2002 [color=red][size=4]good to know your alright. And as long as you're with someone you can trust you should be fine. Good luck![/color][/size]
woody Posted February 21, 2002 Posted February 21, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Gilly [/i] [B]ok my friend is leaving and i know she dosen't want to go she is leaving because she want to get away from her parents because they are always trapping her in her room and she has no freedom she can only talk on the phone for 5 mins a day!!! also she is leaving this week i want to stop her but i don't want her to think that i don't support her whut should i do i'm so confused right now:bawl: :( :bawl: :( :( any adive???? [/B][/QUOTE] [color=green][size=1] How old is your friend? My sister is in the same situation like her right now. My sister is 15, and she want to move out. [/color][/size]
Gilly Posted February 21, 2002 Author Posted February 21, 2002 oh dear i gotta pay 150 bucks for rent where am i gonna get tha money 4 that ....................:bawl:
Matt.D Posted February 21, 2002 Posted February 21, 2002 [color=rainbow] My God Ashlea, grow up. You've already blinded these people enough with your sherad, you can give it up now. Living with a guy...yeah, right.:rolleyes: BTW, to everyone who doesn't know, i'm not being mean to her, but she's been lying to you. She lives across the street from me, and got bored with Otaku so she started to make up stuff. Do any of you remember someone called backspace?[/color]
JCBaggee Posted February 22, 2002 Posted February 22, 2002 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Matt.D [/i] [B][color=rainbow] My God Ashlea, grow up. You've already blinded these people enough with your sherad, you can give it up now. Living with a guy...yeah, right.:rolleyes: BTW, to everyone who doesn't know, i'm not being mean to her, but she's been lying to you. She lives across the street from me, and got bored with Otaku so she started to make up stuff. Do any of you remember someone called backspace?[/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=red][size=3]What?! Why? If this is true, then why? Truly someone could not be so foolish as to think this is the way to stir up some excitement... :wigout:Man...there's a movie plot in here somewhere...:wigout:[/color][/size]
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