Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 Have you ever really been heart broken? It hurts like hell I know. It feels like you are going to vomit and die at the same time. Maybe it's just the coffee I had (not joking it's sorta nasty), but when you are heartbroken it seems like the world is over and it's your fault. Maybe you want to die or maybe you want to get killed. Either way it get's the job done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinnyLyn Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 Indeed, it is the most miserable feeling in the world. And given the factors that lead it can intensify it accordingly. I've known that I've brought being heartbroken on myself. That's the worst of the worst. And I remember just sitting there, feeling like I was far beyond what normal people could understand, that the world was unfairly going on without stopping for me. That I was the cause of it too just made it worse...it's just...*shakes head* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicoTranzrig Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 [COLOR=darkblue]It's really bad everytime I go through things that really throw everything into question. It's a terrible feeling and I try stay active and keep it out of my mind so I don't think so much about the negative stuff.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raiha Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 [COLOR=royalblue]Although I know what it feels like, I hate dwelling on it. Being depressed will only slow you down until you can't get out of your problems. I usually do something that involves hard physical labor, i.e., going off to cord wood with my uncles. After working so hard, it's like I've sweated out my anger and sadness. But I'll still need to sit down and cry; not that I will do it again and again. Once is bad enough.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brasil Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 I quote Alanis Morissette. "You live you learn You love you learn You cry you learn You lose you learn You bleed you learn You scream you learn You grieve you learn You choke you learn You laugh you learn You choose you learn You pray you learn You ask you learn You live you learn" As painful as it may feel now, you do indeed learn from it and learn to deal with future rejection. Our entire lives are spent learning, so we can never place too much emphasis on one thing. Taylor, you're...what, 14? You've got some 70 years left. This little speedbump isn't gonna mean jack **** in a few years. Don't worry about it. Just acknowledge what happened, what you can do to prevent it from happening in the future, and if it can't be avoided, understanding how to...understand it and deal with it without getting upset. A form of apathy is quite effective or a more carefree, "let things fall where they may" kind of attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrist cutter Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 There are worse things that could happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
future girl Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 indeed there are worst things that can happen, but heart break does hurt. i quit on love for now *nods* i decided before i can be happy with someone else, i have to be happy by myself. so far, i still feel like crap, but my love wound is still pretty fresh. the first days are the worse, but at least i can say i'm regaining my strengths bit by bit. i'll live, that's what matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 I FEEL LIKE I'M GOING TO DIE. IF I'M NOT I'LL MAKE IT THAT WAY. THAT'S HOW I'M FEELING RIGHT NOW. I FEAR I MIGHT OF KILLED MYSELF ALREADY AND I'M IN HEAVEN. WELL... PROBABLY HELL. SOMEONE ISN'T HERE. Edit: No, I wouldn't kill myself. Too messy and too lazy. I don't think I want to die anyways. I just hope things work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 [color=indigo]Whoa dude...maybe you should lay off the coffee... I have never really been heart broken to the point that I felt despondant. I guess that I always expect things to not work out so when they don't I am never that surprised or hurt...[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duelist22 Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 I've had that happen to me before. Indeed it is the worst of feelings. You will live through it though, just hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 I won't live through it. You don't know how bad it is to have your heart ripped out, chewed up, and spit out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dayday Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 Taylor, I don't see how're heartbroken. I think the girl is lucky to be able to even talk to someone like you. You don't even deserve someone as low as her. And I'm going to come right out and say this here. I'm really sorry that I had hurt you. I didn't mean to be mean about it, I was trying to be nice. I just didn't have the same feelings as you because the whole week I was gone I had that thought the thing I had already told you about. And plus the whole time I thought about you a lot, but I never really missed you. That's how I found out that I didn't love you and I'm really confused about the whole thing. I had serious headaches all the time and people asked me why I was so more miserable than usual. So if you wanted to know that's everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WW2 Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 I've never had the misfortune of having my heart broken by a girl. I'm sort of a loner, poor me. :( So, I really don't know what feelings you people went through. But I'm pretty sure you can get over it, time heals all things. But just remember that old saying: Its better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all. At least thats how I think it goes.:therock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 [color=crimson][size=1] I've never had the misfortune of having my heart broken by a guy. You know, I think the stereotypical angle of having your heartborken is slanted more to girls than guys. I happen to think it's the other way, really. I'v ewitnessed tons of break-ups, and I think the guy was always more upset.[/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raiha Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Taylor Hewitt [/i] [B]I won't live through it. You don't know how bad it is to have your heart ripped out, chewed up, and spit out. [/B][/QUOTE] [COLOR=royalblue]Oh bull. Everybody goes through the same set of feeings. Anger, depression, sorrow, the whole mismash. It's how we respond that defines our character. Saying that "Nobody has every gone through it but me...." is one of the dumber things you can say. Of course people know what it's like. It happens every day. Don't assume you're the only one with problems like this. And don't keep on going back to it. It'll only destroy you in the long run.[/COLOR] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wild thang Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 okay, you said in another thread that youre 13. i seriosly doubt that you know what true love is and i know because im also 13. you may feel this way now but soon youll get over it. i also have broken up with girls, and i usually get over it quickly, but i dont really have that many feelings. just dont try to let this break up get to you. and dont kill yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 I have never been heart-broken.. then again, I'm also only fourteen. There are many worse things that can happen to you right now, like can happen to me. I honestly think that something worse [i]has[/i] happened to me, more than my heart broken. Alot worse. I was depressed for what felt like a lifetime. I never want to go through it again, though when I think back on it, I feel like I want to die. I know you feel like nothing. Like you're gone. Every normal kid would, when they hurt smoeone. Maybe not heart-broken, though surely feel crap about themselves. Though **** happens man. And alot more is going to happen, alot more worse. That's the way the world turns. I know being heart-broken feels ****, [i]is[/i] ****, and it tears you down. Not from my own experience. From my brother's line, my cousin's line, my friend's line. They're all older than me.. old enough to actally be heart-broken. Old enough to [i]be[/i] faggots, to [i]be[/i] heart-broken. -I'm sure you can do better, way better, and get over it. You've got your whole life ahead of you, make the most of it. Done something wrong, fix it. Leaving it be.. will only leave it as it is the same, and for a long, long time. And that's not good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dayday Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Raiha [/i] [B][COLOR=royalblue]Oh bull. Everybody goes through the same set of feeings. Anger, depression, sorrow, the whole mismash. It's how we respond that defines our character. Saying that "Nobody has every gone through it but me...." is one of the dumber things you can say. Of course people know what it's like. It happens every day. Don't assume you're the only one with problems like this. And don't keep on going back to it. It'll only destroy you in the long run.[/COLOR] [/B][/QUOTE] I think he does know that he just doesn't want to say it. Everything happens to him. Maybe that's why I say certain things like that. [QUOTE]okay, you said in another thread that youre 13. i seriosly doubt that you know what true love is and i know because im also 13. you may feel this way now but soon youll get over it. i also have broken up with girls, and i usually get over it quickly, but i dont really have that many feelings. just dont try to let this break up get to you. and dont kill yourself.[/QUOTE] There was no break up involved in this. There were a few fights and some wrong things said. Actually there was nothing wrong said and now he made the girl hurt because if what he's been saying. This is like the fourth things he's done like this. And he knows she's always here so just stop worrying and talk to her about it. Plus, what you said to her the fourth or fifth day the two of you talked. It wasn't really normal. You just don't tell someone you love them out of nowhere like that. It's not really all that normal. Since, the girl has also been talking to people about you, but not in the open so much that you would notice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 Oh dayday... I didn't mention your name at all and you did. --- On a side note I'm going through some serious problems in my life, no I don't do drugs, but there are alot of changes going on and it's hard. And a note please. I would never commit suicide. Never. I just made that post to see what people thought. All I learned from it is that more people hate me then first thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raiha Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 [color=royalblue]Maybe because you said the wrong things. When you knew what would happen. You even started that suicide thread knowing what peopel would say. Why do that when you knew all the answers yourself? If you were hoping for pity, it will not be very forthcoming. Several of the older people here, like me, all think that you're rather young for this foolishness of love. It's not exactly the smartest thing at your age. Or come to think of it.... any age. Why fall in love when you could better yourself? Like...your life? You know? Get smart? Go to school? Learn new things? I guess that never crossed your mind. Oh well, your loss.[/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 Grr. I'm not suicidal. I never was. I never will be. I hope not anyway but who can tell the future. I'm hated here aren't I. I don't want to be and I love OtakuBoards but it seems like everybody doesn't like me here. This is the only home I have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven's Cloud Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 [QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Raiha [/i] [B][color=royalblue]Maybe because you said the wrong things. When you knew what would happen. You even started that suicide thread knowing what peopel would say. Why do that when you knew all the answers yourself? If you were hoping for pity, it will not be very forthcoming. Several of the older people here, like me, all think that you're rather young for this foolishness of love. It's not exactly the smartest thing at your age. Or come to think of it.... any age. [/color] [/B][/QUOTE] [color=indigo]Amen. When I read these types of threads I wonder if I was ever that pathetic when I was young (granted, I am quite pathetic now, but is a cynical way, not a whiny one). I hate to write this Taylor, but I view this thread as comic relief. I find your problems and attitude very humorous, and I find every sucide lementing post followed by a calm refrain insanly hysterical. [size=1]PS. I don't hate you, actually I quite like you...your over-exaggeration of minute situations never fails to make me laugh (at you not with you, but is there a difference?)[/size][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 Harharhar. Like it even matters anymore. I'm not suicidal. OK. All I have to say now is that I apologise to anyone who feels like I should apologise. I'm stupid and I make wrong decisions. Go ahead and ban me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dayday Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 You know if you keep telling them to ban you they will. And yes I said my name. I don't really care. And since you're not on AIM I just said it her instead of an IM. What I don't care what other people say about it. Please, I'm not embarrassed (most of the time anyway). I don't even know how many of these threads you've done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Taylor Hewitt Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 How many of these threads? If I keep telling to ban me? I don't want them to ban me I only said it once. Anyway I don't know what you mean by how many of these threads but... I assure you there are only two. And one is closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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