Two Points of View

[treflip360]

Is it ok to get a boner while making out with a girl? My friend says no. But i say yes. What do you think?

[Xyandar]

Well the fact that making out with a girl would increase your sexual hormones then i think its pretty normal...now posting it on a forum to let the world know....kinda weird..lol =P

[Gavin]

[SIZE="1"]For a heterosexual male, yes, it is perfectly natural. I do agree somewhat with Xyander though that posting it on a forum seeking an answer is a tad unusual.

Honestly I'm more intrigued why your friend said it wasn't OK, would he have any particular reason for trying to convince you otherwise ?[/SIZE]

[Raiha]

[COLOR="DarkOrchid"][FONT="Times New Roman"]If you are simply kissing a girl on the cheek or a quick peck on the lips, a hardon would be a little bit of an overreaction, but if said innocent kiss was followed up with kisses of a more perverse or exciting nature, the following reactions would be entirely normal:

erection
dilated pupils
increased respiration
elevated heart rate
inability to form a coherent sentence[/FONT][/COLOR]

[Allamorph]

inability to form a coherent sentence

At which point he probably mentioned to the girl that he was experiencing the first condition. Edited February 7, 2015 by Allamorph

[Gavin]

[quote name='Allamorph'][FONT=Calibri]At which point he probably mentioned to the girl that he was experiencing the first condition.[/FONT][/quote]

[SIZE=1]Naturally.[/SIZE]

[The Spectacular Professor]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][B]OtakuBoards:[/B] "What [I]How I Met Your Mother[/I] would be like if it were an MMO."[/FONT]

[Nerdsy]

[color=deeppink]It is absolutely not okay and you should be ashamed of yourself.[/color]

[chibi-master]

Meh. I think it's fine as long as your girlfriend is okay with it, right? *shrug*

[Allamorph]

[quote name='chibi-master']...as long as your girlfriend is okay with it....[/quote]
[FONT=Calibri]If she has any say or control in it at all I'd be more than a little worried.[/FONT]

[The Spectacular Professor]

[quote name='chibi-master']Meh. I think it's fine as long as your girlfriend is okay with it, right? *shrug*[/QUOTE]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]"PUT THAT DOWN RIGHT NOW JEEZ"[/FONT]

[pooperson]

[SIZE="1"][COLOR="RoyalBlue"]I get boners all the time when I make out with girls.[/COLOR][/SIZE]

[pax et agape]

I'd think it would be hard to avoid since it's an unconscious reflex. Really just depends on how desensitized the person is whether it happens or not.

[quote name='Ace'][FONT=Comic Sans MS]"PUT THAT DOWN RIGHT NOW JEEZ"[/FONT][/quote]

"Drop it and step away from the girl now!"

[Aiwass]

Just goes to show you how confused/ lost we are as a species when we don't think a very natural response to a stimulus is to be allowed, or even question it at all.

But yes, I have gotten aroused when kissing a woman before. And no, I found nothing wrong with it.

Perhaps the only thing you have to worry about is having such a big one that it juts out, and offends the woman you are kissing. :p

[The Spectacular Professor]

[quote name='Aiwass']Perhaps the only thing you have to worry about is having such a big one that it juts out, and offends the woman you are kissing. :p[/QUOTE]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]Which would raise the question of why she was making out with you to a degree that would cause said reaction in the first place.[/FONT]

[Gavin]

[quote name='Ace'][FONT=Comic Sans MS]Which would raise the question of why she was making out with you to a degree that would cause said reaction in the first place.[/FONT][/quote]

[SIZE=1]With women, you never know.[/SIZE]

[Aiwass]

[quote name='Gavin'][SIZE=1]With women, you never know.[/SIZE][/QUOTE]

Humans certainly have diverse psychologies, so it's hard to say so.

The best one could do I'd say is be affrontful about it to them, in a way that is respectable. That is to say, verbally ask if they are interested in that way.

That way, the kiss will be taken in a way that is explicitly communicated. A kiss could just be a friend kind of kiss, for example. It may appear one is leaning to kiss on the mouth, but it might be the cheek.

[James]

[font=franklin gothic medium]So, if everybody told you that this reaction was wrong...what would you do then? Punch yourself in the jewels every time you see her?

If you don't tell anyone I doubt anybody will even notice. :catgirl: [/font]

[Allamorph]

[FONT=Calibri]Unless they're looking.[/FONT]

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[The Spectacular Professor]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]Ah, Herbert. I yearn for the days when you were a mildly amusing one-shot character, as opposed to one of the most prominent unfunny inside jokes [B]Family Guy[/B] has.

Speaking of [B]Family Guy[/B], the current season has actually greatly improved now that Seth MacFarlane's pulled his head out of his ego and toned down the whole "Brian is always right" thing.[/FONT]

[CaNz]

please, I have gotten a hardon from far wierder things than kissing a girl, and i highly doubt i am the only one.

plus the easy fix is just to hide it. I normally wrap mine around my leg.

[The Spectacular Professor]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]Okay, even ignoring the fact that no one has junk enough to conceal in such a manner, I'm pretty sure that when you're in that... situation, you're gonna find it real hard to adjust angle, much less wrap.[/FONT]

[Xyandar]

lol so true

[CaNz]

oh gosh... i cant make one stupid joke Ace?

fine, by hide it i mean push it down and do the leg squeez thing...

[Nony]

This whole thread needs a fat sticker on it saying "[b]TMI[/b]".