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[COLOR="goldenrod"][FONT="Comic Sans MS"][quote name='Deus ex Machina'][COLOR="DarkOrange"]OH MY GOD I'M BEING BEATEN BY PREM?!?!?!?!?!?[/COLOR][/QUOTE]At this rate, you'll end up being Prem's slave. :p Though I've never kissed a guy so I guess I'm behind as well. But then I don't care about that kind of stuff. lol[/FONT][/COLOR]
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[size=1]I'm about as straight as an imaginary line.

I don't like all of these prefixes... "bi" "homo" "hetero" "a" "pan"
Hell, I'm just plain [I]sexual[/I].

To me, sex is sex, love is love, doesn't matter which gender I'm with.

[quote name='Deus ex Machina'][COLOR="DarkOrange"] And the penis is just plain [i]creepy looking[/i]. [/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Amen.[/size]
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[FONT="Book Antiqua"]Well, this one kind of surprised me, surprisingly enough. Although I dress in womens pants occasionally, and hang with the G.S.A., have no gag reflex, and flirt with damn near every walking human (nothing to cripples), I'm 110% straight....Even though I've been described as one of the gayest straight guys you'll meet. I do find it interesting, tho, that what you wear often leads people to question sexual orientation, at least in my experiences.

Or it could just be the way I talk....[/FONT]
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[quote name='Sojiro47'][FONT="Book Antiqua"]Well, this one kind of surprised me, surprisingly enough. Although I dress in womens pants occasionally, and hang with the G.S.A., have no gag reflex, and flirt with damn near every walking human (nothing to cripples), I'm 110% straight....Even though I've been described as one of the gayest straight guys you'll meet. I do find it interesting, tho, that what you wear often leads people to question sexual orientation, at least in my experiences.

Or it could just be the way I talk....[/FONT][/QUOTE]

You wear girl pants every Sunday. The only reason I don't question your sexual orientation is because you were the first of the four idiots (I'm in that group, too) to get a girlfriend. Granted, your first girlfriend's Bounty on your head is still active, but you've still had more relationships than me. I don't think it's the way you talk.

Also, next time you mention the "gayest straight guy" thing, give me credit. That's almost a direct quote.

I'm very straight. I've never felt attraction to a man who wasn't extremely convincingly cross-dressed. Even then, it was not much at all. I will sometimes joke around, but the most I have ever been referred to is "gay to a casual onlooker on a bad day."Come on, though, we all have days like that, right?

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I second that motion. His threads are just too attractive, and plain old shmexy. I'm going gay for your threads Rach![/color][/quote]

You can't go gay for a thread. You're going "Threaderosexual!"
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[quote name='Sandy']Yes, so very ugly...

*Sigh* <3[/QUOTE]

[COLOR="DarkOrange"]Sorry not convinced. You would have gotten me with Peter Patrelli... THAT IS if he hadn't started sucking so goddamn bad in season 2. I think that signified the definitive end of hot guys for me -_-

As for your pic, bleg... not a fan of facial hair >_> [/COLOR]
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[quote name='Deus ex Machina'][COLOR="DarkOrange"]Sorry not convinced. You would have gotten me with Peter Patrelli... THAT IS if he hadn't started sucking so goddamn bad in season 2. I think that signified the definitive end of hot guys for me -_-[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Hah, you should've seen Milo Ventimiglia (the actor of Peter Petrelli) in his younger years in Gilmore Girls - what brooding, rebellious hotness! <3

And the image of Ian Somerhalder is all about the eyes. If you don't see that, then you're either in denial or outright blind. XP
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[quote name='Deus ex Machina'][COLOR="DarkOrange"]Sorry not convinced. You would have gotten me with Peter Patrelli... THAT IS if he hadn't started sucking so goddamn bad in season 2. [/COLOR][/QUOTE]

[color=deeppink]Started?


I'm pretty straight. I'm not attracted to men (although I often pretend to be, to unnerve some of my more homophobic friends : D).

However! While I am attracted to women, I lack the drive to ever go through with anything, even when I'm not the one making advances. This has resulted in a few awkward situations, compounded by my basic social ineptness. The girl usually gets offended, I get made fun of for weeks, and I settle comfortably into the friend zone. Blah blah blah.[/color]
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[COLOR="Green"][FONT="Trebuchet MS"]I'm into the girls...in theory.

See, I've always been a really manly man. Not like working out and sports and crap, but I would liken myself to Beowulf minus the sex (but not the combat-oriented nudity...one always fights better when five limbs are at risk). I hit on about every woman I meet, and flirt like a mofo. That, combined with my ability to dance in a way that is "not white guy dancing," and my "rugged good looks" (these are how other people put it) cause many girls to like it, but I just don't like them back. Its sound weird, but I've only had one girlfriend, and she turned out to be a raging lesbian. She was masculine. Girly girls always strike me as making men less manly...significantly. Too many of my friends have gotten girlfriends and been whipped. Girls are cool. I'm attracted to them. I know how to attain one, but I'm just not THAT into them. I like manly women, for no apparent reason. Maybe it was the inherent danger in my ex. She pulled a knife on me before we were even acquainted. Maybe I find danger sexy...[/FONT][/COLOR]
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This post MAY get a little PG-13ish and maybe more for references to watching pornography. So you are warned...



There is a line between being gay and being straight. But that line has been clouded and fogged over many years, making people believe that you are either 100% straight or 100% gay. And that pisses me off. :animeangr
You see, I am straight. But do I think certain men are attractive? Yes. Prime example; Tsunehito from the Japanese band 'D'. He is a very, VERY beautiful man. If I was a girl, I'd probably be all fangirlish for him, but since I am a guy, I just make references to his looks.
That brings me to point #1. It doesn't matter if you're straight or gay, if you think someone is attractive (to any extent), then you think they are. Does that make you a homosexual if you think a woman is sexy when you are a woman yourself? No. Its comes down to the basics of a baby. A baby will like someone depending on how they look. Thats why some babys may like it when you hold them and others may cry a lot.

Now to the porn reference I spoke of...[spoiler]yes, I have watched porn before. Hell, me and one of my friends damn near laughed ourselves to the point of hyperventilation because of it (he was making commentary). Now, if you're watching a porn, would you rather have the mans penis be small or large? Larger ones tend to give women more pleasure and whatnot. And since we as humans get turned on by the sounds of intercourse, the louder they are, the more we get turned on...but the sounds won't be that loud with a small penis. Therefor, most men, if they go to watch a porn with a man and a woman (or more, pending), the watcher would more than likely want the man to have a larger penis.[/spoiler] Does that make him gay? No, its just his personal preference.

Its all based on personal preference. Thats all that being 'straight' and 'gay' is really about.
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I have had a couple of weird experiences because of my sexuality and choice. The weirdest and worst was my freshman year in college. One of my floormates was a sexaholic (we'll call him Joe), always talking about (and showing) the details of his gf.

He became fixated on me for some reason. I think it had to do with me not judging him. Other people made comments, told him to shut up, turn it off, or whatever. I just avoided this guy altogether. No one enjoyed his stories, videos, or pictures, partly because his gf was ugly as hell.
Me ignoring HIM made him suspect I was gay. As luck would have it, so was his best friend (one of his stories was how he fooled this girl into thinking she was having a threesome thanks to his buddy). He told his best friend, who we'll call Bob, to "break me into sex."

Keep in mind this was my first time on my own, living in college and all. It was my first go at a dance club too. Apparently his best friend was buddies with some of the people who worked there, including the bartender, which explains why Joe kept trying to get me to drink that night. I didn't bother to, which annoyed the hell out of him, and he actually made a scene, grabbing me. But my friends and random strangers got annoyed at the guy, so he backed off.

I didn't realize why he wanted me to drink so bad until I went to the bathroom. I never saw Bob or knew who he was, so I didn't notice him following me into the bathroom. There was an "Out of order" bathroom sign on one of the bathroom stalls. Something just felt off, in the room, and that's when I noticed Bob wasn't even peeing while he was standing. He was waiting for the last guy to leave, and I tried to hurry out too. I just finished washing my hands (in hindsight, I should have just left) when the guy left and Bob blocked my exit. I was right behind the guy.
Everything got really slow after that. I went through a bunch of emotions within a split second. Although his punch knocked the wind out of me, I didn't feel it until after the fight. I didn't even stumble. I took it and gave it back, over and over. It was so slow, the slightest motion from him made me hit him harder and harder. I was just so angry, it was weird.

I left him there. I just left the place. My roommate, a computer geek who opted not to go, was surprised I came back already. Wondered what happened. I told him I thought someone tried to date rape me, lol. He told me I was crazy. I figured I was being paranoid too, maybe I overreacted or something.

Then Joe invited everyone on the floor to see pictures of my "Christening." One of the photos was the out of order stall door. Inside the stall was a guy in handcuffs, a paper bag over his head (couldn't tell if he was gagged or unconscious), pants down, sign saying "enter my world, please I'm lonely" with an arrow pointing down towards the person who was bent over. There were a box of condoms on one side, and some lubricant on the other. "Help yourself to help me" with arrows pointing down were there too. Joe had posted it on his website, apparently clueless about what happened.
A few found it funny, others thought it was just nasty. What surprised me was no one made a big deal out of it. Like it was no big deal that someone was just raped, or that this guy planned it. They didn't even believe me when I said it wasn't me in those photos.

The next day, though, I check my e-mail and the Dean wanted to see me. He wanted to resolve this without police involvement, and I told him what happened. Bob was really messed up on the face, I felt bad because unless someone beat him up after me, I caused all that. I'm not a fighter, I'm a lover, lol.
Anyway, he said I raped him, but I told the Dean what really happened. I don't know who set him up in the stall, even, and that my roommate can attest to when I came home. I said I would like the police involved, to check the whole area - and his butt for traces of me.
I learned most of the details at this point because all my floormates wanted to know the details of what happened. Joe shared the details probably so he could see where things went wrong. His friends at the club, what Joe told Bob, the drugging, etc. It was messed up as hell. Apparently the only reason I got the first punch in was because Bob was going to grab my face and kiss me after punching me, and didn't expect me to react.

Joe got off scott-free, Bob left the school or got expelled, I don't know. Joe didn't apologize or anything, just backed off for about a month and was back to being a jack@$$.


Well, straight, buttclean, and virgin still to this day. 8-)... .... Well, that last one isn't really something I'm proud of now that I think about it...
Anyway, point is, I don't think I have any bit of gayness in me. Honestly, I don't see what girls or homosexuals see in men, haha. I don't think people should be so offended that I'm different than them or choose to wait for marriage. Just like how they want to be left alone for their choice of having sex, others should be left alone for not having sex.
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[quote name='AzureWolf'] I don't think people should be so offended that I'm different than them or choose to wait for marriage. Just like how they want to be left alone for their choice of having sex, others should be left alone for not having sex.[/QUOTE]

[font=franklin gothic medium]I think your overall post now helps me to understand what I've read from you in the past, in terms of your thoughts and attitudes. Very interesting (and understandable in some sense too).

But I was also going to say that I think the last part of your statement should be qutoed for truth - just as nobody has the right to judge someone's sexual orientation (which is well beyond their control anyway), it's also true that others shouldn't judge the choices that people make relating to their sex life in general.

I mean I'm often in a position of defending people, but I would never say that someone's decision about abstinence or whatever is wrong - at the end of the day it's their decision and I respect that completely.

As for me, I haven't been following this thread during the last few pages so I'm not quite sure where it's up to in general. I think most people know that I'm pretty not straight, but there's little taboo about that anymore, so it's not nearly as interesting as it once was.[/font]
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[size=1]Hmm. I remember older threads along these lines... and how immature a good deal of our answers were. Huh.

I'm admittedly bisexual, which many on here know (who know me). For a while I was merely curious, and thought I was straight afterward, but I guess if one is going by definition - which is supposedly physical/sexual attraction to both sexes - then I count. The only thing is, it is a very rare case that I [i]do[/i] feel sexually attracted to a female, and when I do, I don't tend to notice because sexual attraction is nothing to me if there are no emotions involved. *shrugs* I tend to ignore or completely forget my sexual attraction to [i]guys[/i] if they don't mean something to my heart, too. People look at me strangely for it, but oh well. I've had people tell me they feel sorry for me because I am completely incapable of one-night-stands - they hold no emotional attachment or fulfilment, so why bother?

Now, this is also all on the basis that I am a virgin and plan on staying that way until I'm eighteen. This has to do with no religious choice - I'm agnostic - but common sense. I am in no position to take care of a child right now, and won't be in the near future. I don't turn 18 for another year and some-odd months, so it's okay. I'd much rather be happy and safe and able to support said children. :)

There I go, off on a tangent. But I agree with James. Never ridicule someone else's decision for abstinence - you just may end up getting ridiculed because you [i]didn't[/i] practice it. ;)[/size]
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[quote name='Arispa'][size=1] I am in no position to take care of a child right now, and won't be in the near future. I don't turn 18 for another year and some-odd months, so it's okay. I'd much rather be happy and safe and able to support said children. :)[/size][/QUOTE]

I hope you have heard that you can use this thing called [I]protection[/I], too. Sex doesn't lead to getting a child automatically, nowadays. ;P

Sorry to sound so sarcastic, of course it's wise to prepare in case of an "accident", but if both sides use protection, then you really shouldn't have to worry about it.
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i'm eighteen years old and homo, so i'm probably at the height of social experiences in my life. however, i am not the typical kind of homo. i'm more straight-acting than a lot of others, and i do not partake in the "normal" lifestyle of many. the gay community is well-known for being promiscuous and flamboyant, but i am neither; i'm athletic and and outdoorsy kind of guy.

which leads to trouble. because i am neither flamboyant or "proud" (not to say i don't like being gay), girls tend to flock to me and i have the awkward job of telling them that i am indeed homo. looking like an athlete and acting "straight" obviously confuses them, and on several occassions, i have caused a lot of "drama" because of this fact.
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well i'm bi but i'm more into guys because my family are strong christians and they hate gay people with a passion now they dont know about me and i'm not going to tell them anytime soon ethier cus my dad will shoot me no joke and i really like my friend anne but she isn't into girls so that hurts but i cant get over her and i'm afriad to get a girlfriend becuase i'm afriad that my parnets will find out and i dont know what they will do to me so really my life sucks
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I guess I could say I'm a Bisexual. I usually find myself attracted to women, but I have had my fair share of flings with men. Trust me, I can understand being awkward with it too. Not because of my parents who are very excepting, but more so because of the fact that I'm in the military and there not quite as open minded. I was actually really worried when I was still back in Texas and went to some hotel room with some cute guy I met at a club. It was so close to post and there were so many people I knew from work at the club, I thought I was screwed for sure.

And just for the record: I did not have sex with him that night. We just kinda made out for a little bit and fell asleep together. Nor have I had sex with anyone, ever(Though I had really wanted to that night). Yeah, I'm a virgin. Not exactly proud, but I wouldn't say ashamed of it either.
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